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I Have Nothing to Wear” — Why This Happens and How to Fix It

By Daniel Dzarma
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 “I Have Nothing to Wear” — Why This Happens and How to Fix It Me in 2022 I’ve stood in front of a full wardrobe and still felt like I had absolutely nothing to wear. The last time I clearly remember feeling that way was September 15th, 2022. My wardrobe has everything  - shirts, trousers, layers and so many options. That morning, I was tired. Tired of owning so many clothes and still struggling to put together one outfit that felt right. That day changed the way I see style. I realized something important: creating a good outfit has nothing to do with the number of clothes you own. It has everything to do with whether those clothes truly fit you — your body, your lifestyle, and your personality. Most of us experience this frustration not because our wardrobes are empty, but because we don’t fully understand ourselves. We don’t always know what fits our build. We don’t always know what flatters our proportions. We don’t always know what makes us feel confident and comfortable....
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Repeating Outfits Is a Sign of Style, Not Laziness

By Daniel Dzarma
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  Repeating Outfits Is a Sign of Style, Not Laziness Somewhere along the way, the internet convinced us that outfits have expiry dates. Social media plays a huge role in how we dress today - inspiring creativity while also setting unrealistic standards. On one hand, it has exposed us to new ideas, better styling techniques, and creative inspiration. It has helped us level up and connect with like-minded individuals who genuinely love fashion. But on the other hand, it has created a silent pressure to keep up. Many people believe they are dressing for themselves, not realizing how deeply influenced they are by what they constantly see online. We scroll, we admire, we save, we copy — and slowly, we start living someone else’s style, thinking it’s our own. And that’s where the lines begin to blur. When Did Repeating Clothes Become Embarrassing? Repeating outfits only became “shameful” when we started feeling like we had something to prove — especially online. Somehow, the narrative sh...
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Why Most People Look ‘Overdressed’ Instead of Well-Dressed

By Daniel Dzarma
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 Why Most People Look Overdressed Instead of Well-Dressed When people say someone is well dressed , what they usually mean is that the person looks nice, comfortable, and confident . And that’s the key thing a lot of us miss. Being well-dressed isn’t just about the clothes you’re wearing. It’s also about how you feel inside them and the energy you give off when you walk into a space. For me, dressing well simply means dressing right for the occasion . Wearing a tee and joggers to the park? That’s well dressed. Wearing a suit to a wedding? Also well dressed. The goal is to look good while feeling comfortable and confident , in a way that makes sense for where you’re going. But I’ve been to so many places where I’ve seen people wearing very expensive clothes and accessories, yet they looked uncomfortable—almost like they lost a bet and had to wear that outfit. And the truth is, no matter how nice the clothes are, when comfort is missing, it shows . When confidence is missing, the ...
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Expensive Clothes Don’t Make You Stylish (And Cheap Clothes Don’t Ruin You)

By Daniel Dzarma
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 Expensive Clothes Don’t Make You Stylish (And Cheap Clothes Don’t Ruin You)                                      There were many times I wore something really expensive, and emotionally, I felt good about it at first. Not because it truly felt like me , but because I was looking forward to people’s comments and reactions. I knew eyes would turn. I knew compliments would come. But the truth is, wearing something expensive never guaranteed my comfort. Most of the time, I felt uncomfortable — physically and emotionally. That discomfort slowly messed with my confidence, and it became a cycle. I felt confident because I was wearing something expensive, and I knew I’d probably be the only one wearing it. But at the same time, the clothes gave off an impression of someone I wasn’t. Deep down, I feared I didn’t belong. I felt like I was trying to meet other people’s expectations instead of...
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